Nothing comes by forcing

 Nothing comes by forcing

Respecting the other side's awareness and experience, do not steal their experiences

It is not my responsibility to change people or to help them if they do not ask for it.

This is their own journey and experiences

Charming people are temporary 

Quenching and taking my time

Enjoy now, and when you get rid of it, do something new.

Time is a hoax; everything is happening now

Life beliefs are fundamental

Spiritual compatibility is important, hence intellectual compatibility

Friends are helping and supporting you in what you want to achieve, not the other way around

For us to be in the best mood, we have to be in the worst mood first.

Not every problem must have a solution (now). We must live as observers and analyse.

The first stages in a relationship are the base, the foundation, and the structure

What is the peeling of the relationship?

It is not easy at all. We are from different cultures. If the parents are not easy for us to accept and live with, and they are our family and have the same language and culture! What about the new partner? 

A person who needs permanent care, frustrated, passive, needs to work on himself and develop himself.

The relationship is mutual. Take it easy and have fun

Do not check everything and make it big; when we see everything, everything becomes very difficult.

Familiarise yourself with kindness, practice it for yourself, and be kind to people who offend you as well. Because this will return to you.

The subject is not personal; not everything is personal. Some people have internal problems.

There is a lot to learn and differentiate between the real and the unreal.

I love myself and play smart; every day is a challenge.

Focus on good things

When you work on yourself and your heart, it will show on your face, and for that, people will accept you or reject you.

Don't talk too badly.

Use the tools you have.

Do not wish evil to anyone (this is a real test), not even yourself, because evil will control your heart.

The energy of love is wonderful. Every day, I send the intention of love and peace to all people, to those who love them, and who need love and peace.

Monitor your feelings.

The energy of intent is wonderful, and it is delivered every day.

Contacting the source is important

God has entrusted you to the people before you, be kind to them, kindness is free.

The energy prevailing in this situation now is fear.

Oh God, make me a tool for people, for what is good for both of us.


To all the versions I once was;

I HAVE NO ENERGY LEFT

“I HAVE NO ENERGY LEFT” I said that after doing my best. I have no fight left in me for those who have no dignity, for those who are different in a good or bad way, just different. The ones who don’t align with my values. The ones who choose themselves over others, Who listens to one side and refuse to hear the other. Who thinks twice before giving, who think twice before loving, who think twice about sharing their food not only that, but carry such heavy moods they make you question your own goodness, as if it’s not enough, or not as worthy as theirs. Those who see the world differently who decides who is right and who is wrong, who deserves land more than another, Who deserves a visa? a paper, or even a mother. To the politicians’ anger. To women-haters. I had no energy left in me. To those who cannot dream. To those who do not dare. To live life I wish to spare myself. To the greedy. To the needy. To the ones who do not dare to dream, yet still dare to scream!
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Take wisdom from the mouths of crazy people

"It’s not about being right; it's about observing people." -Vailcan people- It was the first thing this drunk man said. It was kind of interesting. He came closer and kept talking. The first thought that came to my mind was: “Take wisdom from the mouths of crazy people.” Somehow, it was true until it wasn’t. He talked a lot, mostly about his personal journey and life, which was of no interest to me at all, But I let him speak. Until he suddenly raised his voice at me and said: “Why the fucking Muslim prays in the street in front of the cathedral and not in the fucking mosque?” He said it angrily. I kept listening. I kept observing. It took me years of my life to learn how to stay calm in such moments when it comes to almost any topic. I don’t react easily. I don’t get angry, especially in the last few years, After burnout taught me silence. I listened to the voice in my head, looked into his eyes, and wondered: What do I see there? Racism? Fear? Ignorance? All of it? I wo...
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To all the versions I once were;

 To all the versions I once was; To the saddest of me, the one who suffered a lot, experienced many emotions for the first time The first time, I couldn’t handle a rejection The first time I was sad about living The first time I experienced loss and death When my grandma passed away, I went to the kitchen to bake a cake, and my mom hit me and told me I was disrespectful! But I was 11 back then, and I didn’t know how to deal with it. No one taught me because no one could. To the first fear, when I first lost my mom at the shops, no one was holding my hand I was scared to death, to feel left behind, to feel the fear in every inch That fear comes with madness, and a lot of crying, you look around like crazy But my 4-year-old me didn’t know better Didn’t know how to come up with ideas beyond imagination, and then I was terrified. To the happy one, once. When I was elected in a competition, and my grandpa cried with happiness He gave me my first phone. And I remember the first time when...
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